Tag: boundaries
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lack of empathy or…?
Recently I met a person in a sacred space who to my observation was not very aware of the environment. I wondered with him what it was, a lack of empathy, understanding how society works or maybe a high focus on the self. For sure a lack of consideration for other people and the space.…
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when you give a finger and they take your hand
In Dutch we have a saying: “Als je hem een vinger geeft, neemt hij de hele hand.” Which literally means: “if you give a finger, they’ll take your entire hand”. It describes those moments where you agree to something small and suddenly it feels like much more is expected of you than you were ready…
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projections, mirrors and lessons
Someone else their truth does not have to be yours… we all experience life and everything that happens in different ways. I realize more and more how we all live in our inner world which reflects how we view the outer one. Even though I fantasize and I project onto people as well, especially in…
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is this a date?
Whenever meeting new people (especially men) and they ask you to do something or hang out – it is very confusing if this is as friends, as meeting as souls or if it is a date. Often I do not see it coming, and since I am not interested in dating (sometimes yes but often…
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learning to listen to your body: when it’s too much
Sometimes, someone shows up with all the right intentions – open heart, grand gestures, a willingness to give. And yet… something inside you feels off. Your body tenses. Your heart closes. Your nervous system goes into overdrive. And you don’t know why. For a long time, I thought love meant pushing through that discomfort. If…
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boundaries and anxiety: intertwined
Lessons on boundaries are so interesting. To state them and get people out of your field – creates space. Space for you to be true to you again. Which creates this amazing feeling of flow and joy. There are so many boundaries you can put, the right people (for your path) will listen and anticipate.…
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neptune transit in the 7th house: tips and tricks
Neptune transiting my 7th house was a RIDE. I think since I am a Pisces south node, neptune opposition sun and moon/venus conjunction I already am the queen of projection and fantasy. This Neptune transiting my 7th house activated my moon/venus conjunction with a square. But besides that it additionally entered very Neptunian people into…
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most difficult astrology placement in my own chart
Someone recently asked me the question of what I find the most difficult placement in my own birth chart. I had to think a little bit but I realized that it is my dreamy, Pisces, flowly energy. I love this about me. But it also is the placement that gets me away from Earth. I…