Being fun and having humor together is such a powerful and playful way of connection.
But what is necessary for this is the connection. When something shifts, the energy is not playful anymore, it is not because you are not a funny person or lighthearted.
It is because the dynamic feels off, emotional tone has changed and the container is no longer safe.
Humor exists when you are safe to express yourself. It comes from connection – feeling seen, matched and relaxed.
When that is shaking it dries up.
Your body is wise, your intuition is sharp. It’s ok to listen to yourself. No need to preform when you don’t feel safe to be playful and fun.
Especially when people dare to make comments about this: let them, bye.
miracles of the moon ☽ 