This show shows an internal struggle of a woman who is not 100% happy and fulfilled in her marriage. It shows how she copes with this and the waves of life hitting her.
There were two things said in the series that I wanted to share with you.
it’s not your sink not your dishes
As someone who likes to help others it is such a good reminder to not mingle yourself / myself in others business. Sometimes people just want to rant, to talk, to share about things and not to gain advice. Sometimes you clearly see the problem, but it is for the other to figure that out themselves. sometimes people come into a relationship (romantic or friend) with a bag full of misery, challenges, issues and even though it is beautiful to unpack bags together, this quote is a reminder that you do not have to fix others problems. yes to helping, no to taking over.
if I can’t be in a relationships that allows me to be all that I am I’d rather be alone
Accept people fully for who they are, to me deep love for someone is loving all of their parts. The beautiful and the ugly. no one is perfect, we all have flaws. the passive aggressive comments, the need for reassurance, the cold treatment when you do not feel good. But to be yourself is so important, to feel safe to express yourself on all levels: physical, emotional, mental and spiritual. Being alone is often something that is drawn as sad or a failure in society, but there is beauty to it. There is so much love all around, there is love in smiling at a stranger on the street. Remember if someone does not see you, value you or lets you be you – it is ok to be alone.
miracles of the moon ☽ 